« on: May 28, 2013, 10:37:43 PM »
There’s no better place to read between the grip than the hug. It’s
like a gauge of human emotions. Weak, halfhearted hugs are disappointing
and can demonstrate obligation or distraction, but it’s the hug that
goes from friendly to let’s get a room that I’m interested in. Learn how
to discern the we’re-just-friends hug from the something-more — and
more — hug.
Friendly Hug
These hugs may be longer than a hello
hug between girlfriends, but the we’re-just-friends variety works like
this: Your arms go below his shoulders while his go around yours. His
hands may wander if you stay long enough, but really shouldn’t go beyond
your midback or upper arms. There may be a quick peck on the cheek,
which you can analyze based on previous hugs or if he kisses other
girls. A longer hug when one of you is comforting the other rarely means
anything beyond friendship, but can!
Something-More Hug
If
the friendly hug gets friendlier then something more may be behind it.
When chests touch while both people hug each other’s shoulders, it’s
considered a heart-to-heart hug. It’s definitely a sign that there’s
more where that came from. The placement of hands is also key. If hands
wander longer and farther than normal then it’s probably not your
imagination — but his!
Make-No-Mistake-About-It Hug
Whether
you’re in a relationship or not, if there is lower-body contact then you
two are either having s*x or will be very soon. When a guy hugs you
from behind (hopefully you know him . . . well!) then he can’t wait to
be alone with you. Longer and tighter hugs signal intense feelings, and
they demonstrate commitment when done in public.
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